Make Him Like You
First of all, if you’re looking for a deep, meaningful, intimate relationship if the guy doesn’t like you without you “making” him, then you can’t expect anything long term. But if he’s really cute and you have a huge crush, and all you want is an awesome kiss and a bunch of crazy dates, this will help.
For example, say there’s this guy Mark. You think about him every night. You kiss his picture before you go to bed. You write his name in the margin of your notes with a heart, and then erase it really well before anyone sees. You’re crazy for him.
You see him at school in the hallway. He’s with a friend, laughing. You walk by, but he doesn’t even notice you. You feel a little sad, but you don’t let it get you down. You have class with him, but you don’t want to look pushy, so you decide to sit two rows in front of him, and two rows to the side close enough for him to see you out of the corner of his eye. During class, the teacher says something stupid, and people laugh. You turn back and look at him, smiling at the stupid joke. Your eyes meet for a second, and then you turn away, a little embarrassed. You flip your hair. He sees it. That’s it for the day. He’ll remember you.
The next day, you make a point of asking him a question. You pick an easy one. You’ll have to “accidentally” sit near him for this one to work. In class, near the end when it’s really boring, “what time is it?!” you whisper, obviously bored of the class. Let him answer, and don’t say anything else. This works even better if you’re wearing a watch already. If he notices, he may think its funny because you just asked him for the sake of talking to him, and if he mentions it, you have you’re first conversation-starter. You can always tell him its broken and you just wear it because its pretty and you mention who bought it for you for good measure. But you make sure not to dominate the conversation. Guys like doing work, they don’t want what’s easy.
Now its time to let him do some work. Hopefully he’ll start a conversation with you at some point. Don’t let it last too long. Be nice, and be flirty, but do not cling! You can’t act like you already love him. The more this continues day after day, the more he should like you. Eventually, he’ll ask you out.
But maybe Mark is shy, and maybe he really likes you but can’t find the courage to ask you out. This is where it gets tricky, and what you do next depends on how much you’re scared of rejection. If you think he likes you and you want to risk him saying no when you ask him out, give it a try! Wait until the end of a great conversation, where you’re both laughing and giggling, and say something like, “I’ve really wanted to see [some movie]! I heard [actor] is in it!” And then - in the spur of the moment - ask him if he wants to go with you. He’ll probably say yes.
Whatever you do, don’t give up easily. If you really want the guy, you can get him if you make him see what he wants to see, and if you persist even when you think you’ve already failed. Dating is a hard game, but when you finally win it just think of those lips and your hands running through that dirty blonde messy bad-boy hair. Go get him!
P.S. On your first date, no matter what, he kisses you first; don’t kiss him.
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